You always hear how parenthood changes you as a person, and I have never doubted this fact. Prior to being a father I would have conversations about other peoples kids and the infamous words of, "Now I don't have kids but. . . " would often come out of my mouth. When I look back I like to think I was always mindful of my inexperience and that each child and family is unique and has unique challenges and methods for handling the large number of crazy situations that parenthood seems to bring. But there is one situation that prior to parenthood I had very little empathy for which I now understand in a completely new light. This situation is the parent who must call in sick from work in order to take care of their child. Now, to understand some of my lack of empathy you must first understand my feelings toward work. I do not call in sick. I can remember calling in sick perhaps 3 times...
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